Indications that Your Spouse May be Cheating on You

Marriage is a long-term relationship based on trust and commitment towards a partner. Whether it is men or women, staying loyal to their better half is important. In a marriage, infidelity can be disastrous and is one of the significant challenges that couples face in today’s world. Some people are startled when they find out that their partner is cheating on them, while others find out by way of certain signs or actions of their partner. Do you feel that your partner is not loyal or faithful to you any longer? Do you get that feeling that your partner is having an extra-marital affair with someone?

Kendall Investigations has come up with the following warning signs or signals that could point to infidelity in your marriage.

Change in Usage of Smartphone or Other Technology

It is a no-brainer that most people carry their phones with them wherever they go in today’s world. However, if your spouse is carrying the phone when going to have a shower or to the washroom, it is an indicator that something is suspicious. Hiding the cell phone means that your spouse does not want you to see something. If you have noticed any of the following, you are right to be suspicious:

  • Your spouse is persistently texting someone throughout the day.
  • Your spouse has changed passwords/passcodes and refuses to share them with you.
  • Your spouse clears the search history on the browser.
  • Your partner is overly curious and anxious to show you his/her smartphone – texts, photos, call records, and email.

Taking Extra Care of Appearance and Health

Taking care of looks and health is excellent. However, if your spouse is suddenly dressing nicely when he/she is going out, hits the gym for long hours, wakes up early in the morning, goes for a jog, and becomes conscious about eating habits when they usually do not make any effort, these are red flags that may be a cause of concern in your relationship.

Changes in Behavior and Attitude

Is your spouse fighting with you more often and neglecting your attempts to communicate, giving one-word answers to your questions and becoming defensive when you mention anything about cheating or affairs? These are some changes in behavior that you need to keep a close eye on.

Lost Interest in Sex

Sex is crucial for the health of your relationship. It is not the only intimate thing in your marriage, but it is something that cannot be overlooked. If your partner no longer likes sleeping with you or goes to bed late after you sleep, it means that there is a lack of interest in sex. This is a warning sign that someone else is on their mind.

Higher or Unexplained Spending

If your spouse is spending a lot on items such as flowers, gifts, dinners, and hotel stays; you can quickly determine that it is not for an official purpose and there is something fishy about it.

A polygraph test from Kendall investigations can help solve your relationship woes. If you are coming across red flags in the relationship with your spouse, Kendall Investigations can help you find out the truth with a polygraph test. A lie detector test can prove whether your gut feeling about your spouse is right or wrong.

Reasons why you should use a polygraph test from Kendall Investigations:

  • It shows that your partner dares to answer complex questions honestly.
  • It can heal a struggling relationship.
  • It is an indicator of truthfulness and honesty.
  • It can save a marriage from divorce and going to court.
  • It can prove the innocence of an individual so that the relationship can continue smoothly.

Uncover the truth!


Ken Shull served as a Special Agent with the FBI for almost 25 years and was head of the FBI Polygraph program until his retirement in 2001. At that time he set up the Kendall Investigations practice as a private investigator in Knoxville, TN offering Polygraph services, private investigations, and security guards. Ken is a member of the American Polygraph Association and The American Association of Police Polygraphists.

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